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let’s talk about being in a gender neutral relationship. because i’m happy about a lot of things in my life, but the one thing i’m most grateful for by far, is my relationship to david. as a couple, we just fit – on all different levels. without consciously deciding to, we have built (what i would call) a gender neutral relationship. it just happened !

we’ve always been feminists, coming from sweden and growing up in one of the most gender equal countries in the world. but this isn’t just about sharing the responsibilities or household chores – it’s also about how we view each other as people. without caring about society, norms, traditions, and culture.

i talk about :
– sex vs gender ?!
– feminine / masculine gender roles and why we don’t care !
– why is a neutral relationship is so freeing ?
– why being treated as a ‘woman’ freaks me out !
– what we are like as a couple ?
– living outside the norms !

i’m far from an expert on this topic, but find it so important and interesting ! what are you thoughts kiddos ?

love // jenny

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  1. I think it’s so incredible how the both of you are so agreeing and relaxed with each other. I am not looking for a relationship but if I was I would want it to be something like your’s and David’s. The thing is in america the culture is not ok yet with the idea of gender neutral relationships. it’s still expected of girls to follow and agree with everything the man says. :/

  2. An actual GNC lesbian

    Cool! Still a het relationship. Like, I applaud you and I’m glad you’ve found each other but pls don’t pretend there aren’t a lot of benefits that come with being in a het relationship vs. a same-sex relationship.

  3. Please share the manufacturer of all your eye glasses! I’m especially interested in Jenny’s light colored wire framed(?) ones. They are not the sun glasses. But all fantastic.

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